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Will you have sex on a first date? Or do you like to wait if you really like someone?

\r\n\r\n Tom - I've never been so lucky, but I also believe in love at first sight.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - It could go either way with me. I mean if it happens it happens and I'll go along with the flow. If I really like someone and think there could be a good future with us, I tend to be a little more reserved because if it does work, there are PLENTY of opportunities for great sex in the future.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - Absolutely! If we are both feeling it, having a great time together and there's an instant connection...why not? If a girl wants to wait that is fine...but I would rather know sooner than later if we are compatible in the bedroom as I can't date someone if we're not, so don't want to waste my time or hers.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - I will have sex on the first date. I have waited but found out that was just a waste of time. Why wait?? I am sure the last guy or guys she was with didn't. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - Yes, if there is an instant connection and chemistry why wait? I think it's all about the comfort level and the attraction to one another. I won't have sex with someone unless I like them on some level.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - Depends on the person and how we connected on the date.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - Waiting is a waste of time. Further, if a woman tells me she's into me but wants to wait, we're not likely going on a second date. To me, it's a sign of lack of authenticity.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I would rather wait, I don't want the woman to think that I am just dating her for sex, but if she tells me she wants to have sex, then we will.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - That's a tough one. I have had it both ways. For the most part, waiting is usually the best way to go. It makes the sex even better. I have had a few dates in the past that the first date has ended in sex. I'm not saying that it was a bad thing, but it can be a rare thing. Depending on how the date is going, the girl has been a real adventurer and wanted sex anywhere. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - If I like the woman then sex on the first date is no problem. Being a Catholic I have no reservations about this. If you like the person then FUCKING or NOT is fine.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - I prefer to wait.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Frank - I'm never automatically against sex first on first date, but it really depends on the chemistry. If the chemistry is amazing and we're both overwhelmingly attracted to each other, having sex at the end of a perfect night, even on the first date, may just feel right. But for the most part, even if I'm highly interested in someone, I usually prefer to wait until the second or third date. There's something to be said for the 'tease' and letting the mystery and interest build. For those same reasons, I am much more likely to sleep with a friend who I've known &/or flirted with for a while on a first official date than with someone I've only recently met.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - If I find I am truly interested in someone, I would prefer to wait to be intimate with her. If I were to have sex on the first date, it would be with someone who I knew I would not be having a relationship with other than just casual hellos. (I am always scared that I would be a disappointment in bed and she would not want to see me again).\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - I will, if she initiates it. Usually it's the third time's the charm for me.\r\n\r\n

How do you feel about a woman who has sex on the first date? If you have sex with a woman on the first date, do you look at her as easy or can you still have a relationship with this person?

\r\n\r\nTom - I don't think first date sex should be so scandalized. One needs time to get to know the person, no matter what.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - If a woman sleeps with me on the first date, that just tells me she knows what she wants. Obviously, if immediately afterwards, she gets dressed, says thanks, and leaves, I know she's just wanting a casual thing. But if a woman stays the night and gets up and wants to have breakfast with me and is genuinely into me, then yeah I'll have a relationship with her.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - I have no problem if a woman wants to have sex on the first date...it shows she's comfortable with herself and sexuality. What I don't like is when a woman has sex on a first date and says to me, "I'm usually not that kind of girl, I don't have sex on the first date." Give me a break! I'm not your first or your last. That turns me off big time because it shows she's not comfortable with herself or sexuality. Plus it shows she's worried about what others think of her and there will be problems with this kind of girl down the road. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - If we have sex on the first date I will still continue to see her but that is only because of my age. I am in my 40's so I am not looking for a mother of my children. In my 20's and 30's I would not have continues to see her because you have a different perspective at that age and you are looking for something different.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - It maybe the fact that I hate double standards, but I don't think there is anything wrong with a woman having sex on the first date... if its right, no need to fight. I think I would look at her the same, and again if there is chemistry it might actually speed up how quickly the emotional level follows the sexual adventure. I think it will speed up a relationship, if it's right.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - If I just met the person, and halfway through dinner they are asking about going someplace to have sex. If I find them attractive I might take them home have sex but probably not consider them for a long term relationship. However if we click, laugh get along and I am walking her to her door and we kiss and it's a charged passionate kiss, and I am invited in, I would still consider a possibility of trying it as a long term relationship, because it was something that happened in the moment, not just an expectation.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - That she is honest and open with herself. Women that think that if they have sex on a first date as being 'easy' are misinformed or lack self-confidence. A woman that is comfortable having sex on the first date is simply comfortable with who she is.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - If I meet a woman, and on the first date she wants to have sex, I have no problem, she might be checking me out to see if I am relationship material, and yes I can still have a relationship with that woman.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - I have had long relationships with some who I had sex with on the first date. How can a woman be judged for sex on a first date.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - If the woman has sex on the first date then that is what she wants to do - OK with me - relationship is a crude word for friendship and attraction. Personally I avoid the word relationship and prefer the sound of somebody's company.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - I look at her as being easy. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - I make no judgments about women who have sex on the first date, just as I'd hope no one would judge me if I chose to have sex on the first date and think I'm a 'player', only interested in sex, etc. Having sex after a good date is different than a 'one night stand' with someone you just met at a bar or at a party, because to me, a date is really about getting to know someone better and spending quality time with them, so if getting to know that person makes you even more interested in them, I say let what feels natural happen. So no, if the chemistry is great, of course I wouldn't view someone I slept with on the first date as 'easy'. It wouldn't affect my ability to have a relationship with them at all. Things like overall attraction, trust, being accepted for who I am, not being too clingy/overbearing, etc. are the most important factors when it comes to that kind of decision.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - I feel very uncomfortable if a woman is willing to go to bed after the first date. Unless it is someone I have known for a long time and we have seen each other in group or work situations, the maybe...again, maybe. But on a real first date? No I would wonder why a woman would be so willing to share that beautiful, intimate part of her being so soon. It's as if she didn't respect what a wonderful gift is.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - I never have problems with calling someone afterwards- but I've known from a few episodes in the past- if I wasn't any good, I usually don't get that 'you passed the audition' follow up phone call. \r\n\r\n

When having sex with a woman for the first time, whats going through your mind? Most women are focused on their flaws when getting naked with a man for the first time. Do you even notice them?

\r\n\r\nTom - First time, gives me insecurities. I hope to perform well, and to be turned on enough to do so.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - If I'm really into a woman I don't see her flaws. I'm too focused on making her feel as beautiful as I see her and making sure she is thoroughly satisfied.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - If I'm going out with a woman then deciding to have sex with her then I'm obviously attracted to her physically. I already notice things about her body when we are out on a date and she's dressed. I'm looking to see if she has muffin top, etc. But if she looks good in clothes then there's a good chance she'll look good naked. I know that nobody is perfect so I don't care about little flaws...I'm too focused on the woman's naked body and its beauty.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - Yes I do notice them. If you have a perception of what she looks like under her clothing and then you see something different...padded bras to make her boobs bigger or a girdle to keep her belly in to make her look thinner. As far as what is going thru my mind is trying to make sure whatever I try sexually she is into and that she is enjoying it. Don't want to try and slide my finger in her ass while I am licking her vagina if she is not into it and then ruin the whole mood.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - I think it is the opposite. Everyone is so uniquely built and beautiful. I love exploring a woman's body, her curves, her softness, and her wetness. It is fun to take your time, and tease and tantalite segment by segment, movement by movement. Learning what makes her moan, what makes her want more... what feels good. Does she like it soft and sweet, or does she like it to hurt, or maybe somewhere in between. The first time I am with a woman, I am experimenting how best to make her moan. The more confident she is, the more I want to make her scream.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - I think men are wondering the same thing are women seeing their flaws. But for me personally I am wondering how to proceed, not knowing what they like or don't like what has been their experience, Do I take it slow, do I do oral, so on and so on it's always difficult the first time with someone because you are learning about each other. and trying to impress them. as far as their flaws we rarely notice them.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - If she doesn't take care of her body or she is overly concerned, yes. A woman who is comfortable with herself and her body, is attractive in any form. She exudes sensuality.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - What's going thru my mind is, that I am loving this woman, and would want to have a relationship with her, I never notice flaws in a woman, unless she is missing teeth, or she has a cock, other than that I don't care.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - I never notice the flaws and if I did, I would say nothing and just look past them. Women can also understand that some men can also be focused on their own flaws. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - I have to say that I cannot but notice flaws. I guess I am vain that way - however - my attraction metre is governed by - Is the girl better looking than me - if she is not that is very very bad and I have made a terrible choice. Never be better looking than your girlfriend.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - No.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - When I have sex with a woman for the first time, I'm definitely extra physically and mentally aroused because it's almost like opening a present on Christmas Day - you don't know quite what you're going to get until you open it, you just know it's going to be good! I'm definitely interested in seeing what her breasts and nipples look like, as well as her vagina (whether she's shaved or not, her lips, etc.); all the stuff that's left to the imagination while on a date. But do I focus on her flaws? Not really. Unless it's something glaring like a huge scar she didn't mention, body acne or if she has hygiene issues, I usually don't even notice 'flaws'. Everyone has so-called 'flaws' like a little extra fat they want to get rid of or some cellulite, so these are non-factors to me. If I'm interested in a woman enough to want to sleep with her, I'm focusing on all the things about her that turn me on, making her feel good, and feeling good myself during sex.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - My first thought is always 'Is she disappointed in my size', and then I am worried about how I will perform in bed with her. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - How many times am I going to make her cum? That's what goes through my head every second of the session. The only time I ever noticed something was amiss with a girl was this one time when we were halfway though and while we were talking a bit - she had noticed that I had noticed that she had a odd shaped spine - like protruding through her back as if it was going to burst out of her skin at any moment. She had revealed to me that she had some kind of childhood strain of meningitis when she was a kid that could have killed her. What was even more stranger- I had never took notice of it before even though this was our third time together. \r\n\r\n

Are you self-conscious when you get naked in front of a lover for the first time? Is so, about what?

\r\n\r\nTom - I'm self-conscious about my physique, for sure.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - If a woman has expressed a certain dislike for a feature I have, then I tend to be a little self conscious. For instance, I have hair on my chest. I keep it trimmed and under control, but some women just can't stand chest hair on a guy. So if they talk about that a lot, then yeah i have to say I'm a little self conscious.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - Not at all because I do my best to stay in shape. I'm not perfect but I know I do what I can to be in good shape. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - Not at all. I look at it this way, I am going to do what needs to be done and if she doesn't like the way I look then I won't get invited back. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - A bit, but chances are if she wants me there with my clothes off... that's a good thing. That's why active dates are fun... when you finally get to it you both feel tight, and fit.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - Not really I personally like being nude.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - I am no longer self-concious about geting naked in front of a woman for the first time. All I have is what God gave me. No need to hid it.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - Yes I am self-conscious when getting naked with a woman for the first time, my ex-girlfriend used to talk about me having a big belly, and she would say that my dick was too small for her.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - Yes. I have a bit of a gut now, but when I was younger I was really thin. There are those times you stop and think that the woman liked what she saw when you had your clothes on, but what about when the clothes are off. Both guys and girls need to feel out and understand the other in order for any kind of relationship to be had.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - Not at all. Being the male it is not my job to be pretty but be ready to go and not over weight and unwashed. Always be ready and do not be a slob is the man's job.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Manuel - The first time I'm a bit 'embarrassed, so I try to immediately begin to have sex.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - I'm a little self-conscious when getting naked in front of a lover for the first time, but it passes once I'm sure she's interested in me and definitely once we are having sex. Like most people, I don't consider myself to be in the ideal shape I'd like to be in - I don't have washboard abs, & am a little soft around the middle - so these are the things I'm mildly self-conscious about.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - Very much so. I am worried that she will be disappointed in my size. I am concerned that she is looking at me and comparing me to her other dates. I am worried that she will take a look at it and decide that she is going to have to 'hurry and get this over with' Usually it turns out that I was worried for no reason, but the thought is always there. I also worry as to how I am performance wise compared to other men she has been with. I know I worry too much.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - I make sure that I'm well kept down below. I think I have the most disgusting and mismanaged pubic hair ever in the existence of man, and I make sure I'm well manicured or shaved - EVEN if I know I'm not going to expecting any action. It's just done as a precaution. BUT since I haven't been with anyone in close to three years (like I said- this is the way the economy has eaten away at me - my sex life being the most damaging), I imagine I should start doing some laps in the pool, because the spare tire is beginning to show.\r\n\r\n

What goes through your mind as you're about to have sex with a girl? Her hot body, how her pussy will feel, if you will be able to last long enough, or keep it up?

\r\n\r\nTom - I wonder about her taste. I can't say that I've met any that tell me not to go down, when we're nude.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - In my head, I'm thinking of all the dirty little tricks I know that will make her cum. My rule is to make her cum at least once before I even put my dick in her. That way I know that she'll be satisfied and warmed up and REALLY into it. And most of the time, once a woman cums once from foreplay, a few more are not far behind.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - I'm thinking about all the visuals I'm about to see with her naked body, how her pussy will taste and how it will feel when I first enter it. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - If she is really sexy and I am overly exited I definitely worry about not lasting. If the night has been very flirty in a sexual nature and I am all worked up for hours then I do worry about finishing too quickly.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - I think her hot body for sure. The feel of the wetness of her pussy and how it temps the head of my cock to dive in. The way her body reacts when I plunge myself in side her. I think about her reaction to my fucking, what feels good for her, what position does she like... legs over my shoulders, does she want to be on top. How can I make her cum like no one ever has before? Then I try to make that happen. I don't often worry about my physical performance, only that I am in tune with her needs as a woman.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - Her hot body, how her pussy will feel, if you will be able to last long enough, or keep it up. Usually what did I do to get here, and please don't mess this up.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - I try not to have anything go through my mind, other than her response. Luckily, I have an extremely high sensory acuity, so I can pick up on the subtleties of what a woman likes and doesn't. I just try to tune into her body and let it tell me what to do.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I think about her hot body, her breasts bouncing while we are having sex, also how my cock feels in her pussy, and how long will I be able to keep it up.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - I have yet to find any girl that can keep up with me during sex. What goes through my mind however is not only can she keep up but can I send her where she has never gone before? Can I get her off harder than she knew possible? Finally, to know that I am giving her what she wants and more. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - My thoughts at that moment are a combo of her hot body and sliding inside of her. I am not worried about lasting or keeping up - just stay hydrated for that. If the girl likes you just go with the flow and don't be a moocher.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - Her body. The body is very very very important.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - As I'm about to have sex with a girl, I'm usually so turned on that it's hard to articulate exactly what I'm thinking about in the moment! It's a much more sensual and animalistic way of thinking, with me thinking about how nice she'll feel against my body, how soft her lips feel as I kiss her, what her pussy will taste like, how good it will feel to be inside her, etc. Mainly, I am thinking about how I will please her and make HER feel good, because I know that by making her feel good I'll enjoy it and feel just as good myself in the process. So if I am thinking anything in particular besides immediate sensory thoughts, it's usually how I will begin making love to her, whether it's by starting with slowly kissing her neck or navel, working my way down to her pussy to give her head, fingering her pussy, etc. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - Three things...again my size, how long I can keep it up, and third (and I am not proud of this), how here pussy will taste. I really love eating pussy, I really do, but I have had a few women in my life where the taste and smell were just horrible.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - How her pussy is going to taste and how many times I'm going to make her cum by devouring her alive. That's the part I enjoy most, getting her off first - the other stuff is just gravy on the top.\r\n\r\n

How kinky do you like sex to be on the first date? Or maybe you just prefer missionary and/or doggie on the first date and save the rest for when you get to know someone more?

\r\n\r\nTom - I've never had anal, on a first date, aside from sex, anyway.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - I just go with the flow. If she's kind of reserved I'll keep it simple, yet effective. Now if she's a wild girl, there's no limit. I'll pull out all the stops. Hair pulling, ass smacking, just dirty wild porno sex. Good times there!\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - The first time having sex I'm up for whatever the girl wants. I'm there to please her but to a limit. I'm not into BDSM. I don't mind light bondage. I love adventurous girls! But if the girl is just into missionary or basic positions the first night then I'm fine with that but not every time we have sex as I believe you need to spice things up.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - I like to be a little kinky. Maybe some hair pulling and ass slapping or even holding her hand behind her back as I bend her over and take her from behind.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - The first fuck is about exploration. Figuring one another out, what works and what doesn't. If I get the kinky vibe from a woman I will for sure push it. I am a pretty kinky guy, but ill for sure hold back a bit. I don't want to push too hard too soon. I love licking pussy, so I would love to warm her until she's ready to sit on my face.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - I prefer missionary the first time then if there is a second time exploring each other's fantasies.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - Diving into kinks and discussing fetishes is always preferred. It shows openness and honesty.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - Kinky is a woman riding me like a horse and doggie style.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - I am open for any and all positions that the girls wants to do. If she wants to do it in a public place I'm all for it. Kink is what you make of it. \r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - Usually it is best to wait for kinky. But cowgirl is always good especially if she has high heels on.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - Il ove lick her tits and pussy. Then missionary and doggie\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - I'm more concerned with sex just being all-around enjoyable on the first date, and usually, since it's your first time with that person, standard positions (missionary, doggie, cowgirl) & reciprocal oral sex are more than enough to make that happen. So while I'm open to all forms of kinkiness in a relationship, being too kinky on a first date might be a little odd or off-putting, like if a girl wanted to mess with bondage or insisted on anal sex or using toys. 69-ing would probably be as 'kinky' as I'd enjoy on a first date.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - If I am having sex on the first date, then I would find it fun to have a little kink, some bondage, interesting positions, some role-play. I love eating pussy, I love it when a woman is on top, and I would like to give her a spanking if she is into that. I would enjoy being tied up and teased as well.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - The only way I was described as kinky was I was in a threesome with two black girls and I brought out a bowl filled to the brim with a variety of flavored condoms (like vanilla, strawberry, etc;)- which I didn't think to myself as weird or anything. The only way I can describe myself kinky on a date, is that I get so mesmerized and crazed by the sight of a girl in pantyhose or a body stocking that I'll immediately start to eat her out with them still on and tear off the crotches with my teeth and hands- but some women tell me that's a natural male predatory instinct and that it's really nothing to worry about, as long as it gets them off. \r\n\r\n\r\n

How do you feel about a woman being dominant in the bedroom? Or do you prefer to always be in charge when it comes to sex?

\r\n\r\n\r\nTom - I don't mind \r\n female dominance. I like it, because I know she'll tell me what she likes/wants.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - It's really sexy when a woman wants to be in charge. I love it! I like a mixture of both though. Sometimes she's in control the whole time, sometimes I am, and sometimes we switch control mid way through. It makes me feel like she wants to be there as much as I do.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - Totally fine with it as long as it's not BDSM, light bondage only. But I love a woman to tell me what to do or what she wants! She can dominant me all night if she wants. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - I like both, but mostly me being in charge. I have been bound to a chair and teased before having her get on top or been told what positions she wants. I definitely like using toys on her or making her use toys on herself as I watch. Cuffs and thigh spreaders are some things I like to use as well.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - I love it. I think it's so fucking hot when a woman takes charge. I love being a sexy toy, abused, or whatever. I am even bigger on taking turns.... Sometimes being the dominating presence and taking a woman how I want her, and pushing her limits, because it's what I want, and knowing the next time it will be her turn to be the dominatrix. So hot both ways.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - I like to go both ways, I like a woman to tell me what she likes, but accept the fact that I might not feel comfortable with something and not get upset if I don't want to.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - I absolutely LOVE Dominant women and am very tuned into the Power of her Divine Being.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I don't mind a woman telling me how she wants me to fuck her, I usually like being in charge, but if the woman prefers something I will let her take charge then.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - I don't always have to be in charge of how the sex goes. If the woman wants to be dominant and see how far she can take it, I am all for it. That in itself is its own turn on and kink.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - Give and take is good. If you are always telling the woman what to do there is no spontaneity and it feels too much like just watching porno. Nothing wrong with porno but porno is usually just voyeuristic not normally an interactive experience with another person.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - I prefer a dominant woman.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - I enjoy a woman being dominant in the bedroom, or at the very least being assertive and never being shy about what positions she wants next and/or what will turn her on most at the time. When you're having sex with someone, especially for the first time, you're feeling so much and so much is going through your head, that the extra direction is always appreciated. Don't get me wrong, I also enjoy being a dominant male and taking charge, being more physical, pounding a girl's pussy, etc. when it feels right, but overall, I feel that both men and women should be assertive in the bedroom and take ownership of what's going to make them each feel best in sex, as opposed to always having one person guess and constantly lead.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - I would love to have a woman in charge in the bedroom. Being tied up and teased, a little pain, and with the right woman, I would like her to use a strap-on with me. I also like taking charge. Tying her down, using toys on her, blindfolding her. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - I'm up for anything that a woman suggests- AS long as it doesn't involving sticking their fingers or exploring my back door area and having anal sex. I have absolute no desire to get to that stage of the relationship. There are two things I am proud of accomplishing before I reach the age of fifty (which will be a year and four months from now) Never ever having been or seen the inside of a jail ceil and putting my dick into a girl's poopchute.\r\n\r\n

How would you feel with a woman who suggested, the first time youre having sex, using bondage, blindfolds and/or paddles? Would you be into that and how would your perception about the woman change, if at all?

\r\n\r\nTom - I would not be alarmed, but I would want to be careful.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - I'm all for it! That shows me she's comfortable in who she is and that she likes to have fun. The only way my perception of her would change would be in a positive way. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - I'm fine with all of that. No my perception for this girl wouldn't change, it would only make me want her more...love adventurous women!\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - I would be all in. I definitely like adventurous in the bedroom. My perception would be that I am on the same page as this woman and that she is adventurous like I am.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - If this is unexpected, then I think any man would feel like he hit the jackpot. A girl you like, and are sexually attracted to who also likes to throw caution to the wind in the bedroom?? Yes please. Obviously there are extremes which on a first date would probably be a little alarming.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - If I am attracted to her, and I feel comfortable with here then I am open to try it.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - I would absolutely welcome it and I would be very comfortable. I know my place.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I don't like bondage, blindfolds, paddles, or whips, just sex.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - No, I don't believe that my perception would change at all. I'd even offer her my ropes and handcuffs if she needed them. I would even point out the best places to be tied up to. Hit me with your best shot.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - I would be fine with that. It can be a good voyeuristic experience without just watching porno and being only self immersed.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - I like fancy women. I would be thrilled.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - I would really have to know and feel comfortable with someone first (ie. if I was on a first date with a friend I've known for a while), to be open to using bondage, blindfolds or paddles during our first sexual encounter. To me, sex the first time should be more than arousing enough without those things, so if a new partner insisted on it, I would wonder if maybe she was deep into S&M and needed that stuff to get off. So while I'm not against light bondage and kinky fun, I'd rather save it for down the road in a relationship to keep things fresh.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - I would find that very exciting. My perception would be that this woman is very exciting and open with herself and what she enjoys. I would be impressed with that. I would definitely enjoy that.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - It might be fun. Just for going down and eating her for a while (and for me vice versa) - but not for very long, for what happens if a panic or heart attack occurs?\r\n\r\n

How do you feel about going down on a woman? Or maybe youre someone who likes to shower with your lover before going down on her, please explain your likes and dislikes?

\r\n\r\nTom - What drives me crazy (good way) is when the gal totally shaves, down there. It's just an open invitation to an eager mouth. Showering is fun, when done, together.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n\r\nGlen - I absolutely love going down on a woman. Licking rubbing, fingering, sucking, massaging I love it all. I like making her cum with my tongue and then licking my way back up her body before sliding inside her. A huge turn off is if her pussy smells bad. I have a hard time even having sex with a woman if it smells bad down there. Is it from a lack of cleaning or is something wrong down there or some other situation? I just don't mess with it if there's an unpleasant odor eminating from that region.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - I love going down on a woman as long as she's clean. Even if you took a shower before our date, I would prefer the woman, and me, wash up. That's just me...I like a fresh, clean pussy.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - I enjoy going down on a woman, as a matter of fact I insist on it every time we have sex. I want her to cum before I even have penetration. I like it completely shaven. I do not enjoy pussy's that are really dark or have big flappy lips. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - I mean sometimes depending on the woman the smell can be quite pungent sometimes.... However, I love, absolutely love going down on a woman, in fact I think I do some of my best work orally. If she is proud of her pussy, and clean (well groomed), I will stay down there until she begs me to stop... and then I'll probably go for a while longer.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - I like going down on women, however odor can be a buzz kill, and I have even found yeast while going down on a woman, really was kind of awkward.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - In general, one tends to be very good at the things they love. This, coupled with my sensory acuity, generally gets amazement from a woman for my exceptional oral gift. I have been told by Porn stars that I give them head better than other women in the industry. When someone in the industry says, 'You're the best I've ever had' it's very tempting to say, 'I know' but instead, I just say, 'Thank You'. It's not an ego thing for me, though it is a sense of PRIDE.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I like to go down on a woman, I don't look at how everything looks or smells, none of that stull goes thru my head.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - There is nothing I like better than going down on a woman. I enjoy bringing her to the edge and then backing off to start the build up again. I will give her the ultimate eat out until she wants something else. I have even had a time where I shaved my date's pussy bald and then showed her the benefits.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - You should always shower. The better looking the woman the easier the going down. Usually leads to 69 which is great. Nice legs and a cute pussy makes it easy.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - I do not think about anything. at that moment you do not think about anything\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - I LOVE going down on a woman! It's one of my favorite parts about sex, probably because it's so sensory-oriented, and I am a very sensual person. I love the way a woman's labia and clit feels in my mouth and against my tongue, and I know what I am getting into when I'm about to give a girl head, so I'm prepared for and enjoy every woman's unique taste and scent. The only time when this might ever be a problem is if she has an infection or really poor hygiene, in which case, I would hope she would know and stop me before I even tried. But overall, I try to make anyone I'm with not feel insecure about their vagina in any way - I've gone down on hairy ones, shaved ones, ones w/ big labial lips and ones with hardly any labia at all, and I've enjoyed them all! Also, I still enjoy giving head when things are a little sweaty, like at the end of a long day at work, etc., so I'm definitely not one of these guys who needs a girl to come straight from the shower in order to want to go down.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - I love going down on a woman. I have had a few experiences where the taste and smell were pretty bad, but for the most part it was never a problem. If she is clean there, I will spend a lot of time trying to please her. The only thing I would ask is to have her guide me as to what she likes and wants and doesn't like or want. I am always looking to get better at pleasing a woman this way. If I had the opportunity to shower with her before we hit the bed, I would love to go down on her in the shower.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - IT's the most important meal of the day. I absolutely live for it. I've only had one experience in the past where I caught someone unawares while she was sleeping and I forgot that she hadn't bathed in a day or two, and that made me choke. There was one time, when my next door porn actress neighbor called me on the phone with some insecure issues about her pussy. I had eaten her out a few times over a weekend- and I guess she was doing a film shoot a couple of days into the workweek and she told me that the male actor refused to shoot a scene with him going down on her and was told by him that it reeked too much. She wanted to know my opinion about whether or not her vagina stinked - and I assured her that it smelled and tasted like any other girl's vagina (of which she said - WHAT do you mean like any other girl - I'm not like other girls!). I suggested maybe that actor had some olfactory nerve issues. Anyway, I just thought that was the most awkward phone conversation that I ever had with a girl.\r\n\r\n

What are the thoughts going through your head when youre about to go down on a woman for the first time? Do you prefer a certain type of pussy? Or does it even matter to you?

\r\n\r\nTom - It does not really matter, to me, as long as they shave. If I could choose a type, I like a vulva to tuck in the labia.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - Every woman is different, obviously. But if I had to say what I like, I would say that I like a nice tight, pretty pussy. Lips aren't too big, clit isn't out of proportion, shaved, and of course, smells good. As long as everything is in proportion, I'm good. However, that's not a deal breaker. I'm not going to not want to be with a woman just because everything isn't exactly perfect down there. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - Definitely how she will taste and smell. Every woman has a different taste and smell to her pussy and it's great. I love all the different aromas! Plus some women get more wet than others and I love a really wet pussy. As far as what the pussy looks like...I don't like large clits that hang down past the lips or large lips. And I prefer pink pussies over dark ones....just my preference. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - I like the nice smooth pussy's, with a little to medium size clit. Nice and pink or flesh coloring , nothing real dark.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - Hmmm all Vaginas are for sure different. I do prefer a cleanly waxed or shaved pussy, and sometimes when the labia is all over the place it can get in the way. Clits are great when they are well pronounced, often times after stimulating... Also... the wetter the better... sometimes women are self-conscious, but trust me... the wetter, the better.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - As far as size and shape goes I really don't have a preference, what's going through my mind is what technique to use, women are sensitive in different ways so you have to find what works with each woman.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - No thoughts. I just observe. I do prefer a clit that's easy to access and a Pussy that is more responsive, however I'm not afraid to do quite a bit of work.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - None of that matters to me, I prefer a nice tight pussy, but I like all types.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - Pussy is pussy. Variety does keep it interesting as well as fun. I have found that in the end, they all work the same way and get/give the same results. It all comes down to how well you use it and if you know what you're doing with it. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - It does not matter as long as the woman is attractive and we are in the moment.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - I like small clits and shaved vaginas\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - I kind of covered this in the previous question, but to reiterate, before I am about to give a girl head for the first time, I'm mainly just thinking about making her feel comfortable with her own vagina and making sure she knows I will thoroughly enjoy pleasing her. And I enjoy every type of pussy, but if I have to choose, my favorite would have medium to larger labia lips so that I can feel them in my mouth if I nibble or suck on them. Clit size is never an issue, but it is nice when a girl has a clit and clitoral hood large enough to definitely feel and suck on, as well. Also, shaved pussies are always great, but only as long as they're maintained, b/c too much stubble down there can hurt! Personally, I've always preferred a little hair down there on a girl, like a nicely groomed triangle or 'landing strip', but being shaved or unshaved is never a deal breaker. Having a pussy that is able to 'squirt' is also a plus, as the wetter I get from a girl, the better!\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - I am not proud of this, but a women whose clit is huge and sticking out is not something I find attractive. Also, I much prefer a woman who is bald down there. Really hairy is not a deal breaker, but not exciting for me. I much prefer trimmed or most exciting bald. Also, and again, I am not proud of this, but huge labia lips that hang down are also not attractive to me. I feel bad about this answer. I need to rethink my feelings on this. It really shouldn't matter what a woman's pussy looks like. I don't want to be judged by the size or shape of my cock, so I need to get past my feelings on this.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - Having my fingers crossed that it's going to be a thrill ride for her. The way I know that she's enjoying it is by when she buckles and screams to not to have me stop- or how she pivots her legs up in the air and you have to raise up to your knees to not let go- or she flips you over in a chokehold while refusing to stop licking her hoping for the big payoff that she's going to squirt, so size or shape isn't a problem. Each vagina has its' unique challenges. \r\n\r\n

Is there such a thing as a bad blow job?

\r\n\r\nTom - I don't think there is such a thing.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - Hell yes there are bad blowjobs! If a woman just stays in one spot and does just one thing, that's a bad blowjob. A few months back, I had a girl giving me a blowjob, and the only thing she did was suck on the head. After a while it actually got painful and I told her to stop. Well, then she got mad and left. Ladies, don't just suck on the head! It hurts!\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - Absolutely!!! When a girl isn't into it and just going through the motions because she thinks this will make you happy. A girl who's really into it will make eye contact, sounds, and will just devour your cock. I'll just pull the girl up and move onto other things. I will try to help them by telling them what I like and some girls love that and others just don't like giving blowjobs so I'd rather they didn't. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - YES!! I have had one woman that would stop periodically to chat...can you imagine? It wasn't even dirty talk! I have also experienced rough, toothy blow jobs that I have actually had to stop and say enough and then lie and tell them I usually can't cum from oral stimulation.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - Let's just say some are better than others... I don't know think I would ever decline a blow job, but if it's too slow, or with too little or pressure, or too shallow... I know I am not going to get off that way... so I may have some suggestions or guidance... when you are performing oral, or receiving it... I think telling your partner what you want is incredible important.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - Yes, I do not like teeth. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - Yes, a woman that's not into it, or just goes through the motions.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - Yes there is a bad blowjob, it's a blowjob that doesn't make your cock stiffen.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - I wouldn't say there is such a thing as a bad blow job, as I would say there is room for improvement. If it is the first blow job the girl is giving, of course there is a chance that it won't be exactly what you are looking for. This is the time that you educate her into what you like and as she gets the hang of it, allow her to experiment. It's only bad if you let be.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - No - as long as you are attracted to the woman.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - Blowjob must be done slowly .. if done quickly bothers me.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - Yes, there is a such thing as a 'bad blow job'. A bad blow job is one that's just not enjoyable because the girl giving it is either just not into giving it and it seems like a chore to her, or she doesn't know what she's doing at all, seems too mechanical, makes no eye-contact, etc.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - The only bad blowjobs I have had either had a lot of teeth involved or most disappointing was a woman who hated giving head that does it just to get it over with. If she doesn't enjoy it, I don't want it. I know a lot of guys who will take any blow job they can get but with me, I only want a woman to do something sexually if she enjoys it. Please don't do something because it is expected of you. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - Yeah. I guess so. Most girls that I've been with- just do it to get you in the mood, but they don't want to do it to completion. Throughout my entire existence- I've only experienced three fantastic blow jobs - because those ones were enthusiastic about sucking cock (of course, one had to be my porn actress neighbor)- It's a equal turn on for them as it for me eating pussy. I guess sometimes I get involved with girls who don't even regard it as a major priority.\r\n\r\n

How much do you enjoy a woman giving you a blow job? Would you like one every time you have sex? Or does it matter?

\r\n\r\nTom - I would like one, every time, but beggars can't always be choosers.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - It doesn't have to happen every time before sex, but if there's time and the situation dictates, then yeah its always good to get one before sex.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - Love them! I definitely would like one every time but it doesn't have to happen. I especially love them when it's not expected; driving home from dinner, pulling me aside in a restaurant to give me a blow job in the bathroom, or I've had a girl give me a blow job as dinner. We had a corner table and she went under the table cloth and gave me one. No one knew!\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - I enjoy having it sucked and licked as foreplay but I ultimately want to have my orgasm from vaginal or anal penetration. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - I love it! Especially when it is at a random time, or she tells you she wants to. It is to switch it up during sex... so oral is fun to throw in the middle... or to finish something off... but every time? Totally not needed! It's all about keeping it spontaneous. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - I am insensitive in that area so I really don't get much pleasure from a blowjob, a lot of women will do it to arouse a man, I prefer to take my time and get aroused without the blowjob.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - If she enjoys it, then yes, I do to! \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I love blowjobs, I would love to have a blowjob before sex.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - I like blow jobs. They aren't necessary each time to having sex, but they are great. I've had sex without a blow job and I've had a blow job without sex. I have had times where I would rather go down on a girl before sex than to have a blow job first. I'm not selfish.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - A blow job is good but does not have to happen all the time - even when I get a blow job I like to have sex with the woman. Makes it more exciting when you go back and forth. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - Everytime!!!\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - A good blow job is great, but a blow job is never necessary every time I have sex. In fact, getting a blow job every time would probably make it feel less special and more routine. The best blow jobs are spontaneous, when a woman initiates and wants to give it in order to make her partner feel good.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - I love both blow jobs and hand jobs. It's kind of like the woman is saying to me 'OK, just lay back and let me take over'. She wants to give me her full attention and at that moment not expect anything back, other than the enjoyment of giving me pleasure. Would I like one every time we have sex? Yes, but not if it means that we will not have intercouse afterward. I never want a woman to feel that our sex life is all about me. Don't get me wrong; to have her give me a blow job or hand job in the middle of the day or evening without follow up sex to be involved would be wonderful. That would be a huge turn on, but again, I want sex involved most of the time.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - Of course I would enjoy it- but knowing how guys leave a mark for all girls to remember them by- I always caution a girl just as I feel I'm close to about blowing my load: ' if you're going to be sucking me off- there might be a mess on your sheets. So, are you going to be ok with that? ' Am I going to have to fork money out for a dry cleaning bill?' So - it doesn't really matter, unless there's a drying cleaning bill involved.\r\n\r\n

What are you usually thinking when a woman is giving you a blow job? Are you thinking about her technique? Or are you just so happy to be getting a blow job that you arent thinking about anything?

\r\n\r\nTom - It's always pretty happy time, but I do love it, when getting my glans sucked hard.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - At first I don't think about anything because it feels good. After that, it depends on what she's doing/not doing that I start thinking. If she's really good, then I just lay back and enjoy myself. If she's not so good, I try to move around a little to maybe help her see what I want or I just tell her. It all depends on the person, situation, or location.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - That I don't want it to end!!! If her technique is bad then definitely thinking of things she can do better so I can tell her. But as I mentioned before there are some girls that are just not into giving blowjobs and you can tell this so I'd rather they didn't.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - I am thinking about how good or bad it feels and if I want her to go faster or slower I just say it. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - I am always happy to be getting a blow job, which is my first thought every time. It's like I yell 'yay!!!!' in my head as soon as her lips reach my cock. If she wants to finish me off that way it might take the faster, deeper, use your hand on the shaft... thought, but if she takes charge, and is confident I would love to sit back and watch her work... so sexy.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - I am usually happy they feel comfortable enough to give me a blowjob.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - I'm not afraid to tell her what I like. I usually let her do her thing and enjoy it, though I can be very vocal.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I'm thinking she could fondle my balls in her mouth if she can, but I am just thinking about the blowjob my date is giving me.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - I only think about how hot she is. She can work the blow job any way she wants to. I am hers to do with as she sees fit. I also enjoy watching her. The woman can have a certain glint in her eye as she works her magic and you know she enjoys what she is doing.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - I think how good it feels and what part of woman's body I would like to be next to - her boobs or pussy or mouth.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - I wish she suck softer\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - Haha, if it's a good blow job, then yes, usually I'm too busy just letting myself enjoy the moment to think about anything specific! But if it's a blow job that could use improvement, sometimes I do find myself wishing that maybe she would make more eye contact while doing it, play with and caress my balls more, suck harder or stroke with one hand, gently glide her teeth along my head, etc.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - I am hoping that I won't have to ask her to do certain things. I love having my balls played with...kissed sucked, tickled, etc. I'm not crazy with her finger up my ass, but if she were to do that, then I know she was getting into it and I would never complain about that. I just would like it to be more that an 'up and down, get it over with quick' type of blow job. I would want her to really be into trying to please me and doing all she can. Different speeds, different positions, ball playing to be a natural part of what she is doing. If she is doing all these things then I just lay back and thank my lucky stars that this woman is trying to please me.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - Yeah- I guess I'm just happy to get a blow job. There's really nothing to think about. Just bask in the glory of the moment - and I'm told they love it more when the balls are shaved because it doesn't taste gross or disgusting.\r\n\r\n

What do you like to look at on a woman while having sex?

\r\n\r\nTom - I love gazing at her ass.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - I like to see everything. If she's bent over in front of me I like to watch her ass and watch her pussy getting fucked. If she's riding me, I like watching her work her pussy and her whole body. Missionary I like to look at her face and watch her reactions as I do things and when she cums. To me that's extremely sexy and a big turn on.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - The curve of her waist and her boobs. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - If we are doing it missionary then I will stare into her eyes. If she is on top then her boobs and face. Doggie style then I will watch my penis go in and out of her.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - I love watching a woman's facial reaction while I am inside of her, occasionally locking eyes while knocking boots. Haha. Obviously sometimes it's fun to watch a chest bounce, or watch a pussy or ass as you enter inside someone. Mostly though, it is so hot to watch her face as she gets closer and closer to orgasm.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - I like to see her eyes, and her ass.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - I prefer to see her eyes, if we have a connection. Especially a Tantric Connection!\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I like to see her breasts bob up and down while I am fucking her.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - While having sex, I look at the whole package. I can be sucking on her nipples while playing with her boobs or I can slap her ass. I can even change it up knowing that she is getting more turned on with every added play.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - I like looking at a woman's face and her boobs. I like it when the woman gets excited seeing the thrill in her eyes and mouth.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - Boobs\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - Honestly, one of my biggest turn-ons is just looking at a woman's face while I am inside of her. Watching her eyes and reactions can be very hot; same with kissing her and feeling the way her mouth reacts while we are fucking. But aside from her face & looking into her eyes, then yes, watching her breasts bounce (especially during cowgirl) is always a major turn on, as is watching myself penetrate her pussy, both in missionary and from behind. I definitely enjoy watching a girl's round ass smack against me during doggystyle.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - I love to look into her eyes. I find that when a woman and I lock eyes during sex....WOW...that makes a very intense connection for me. I also enjoy seeing her ass, if she is doing cowgirl style, I love staring at her ass, I am an ass guy so that is exciting for me. Also when a woman is on top, I do love it when her boobs are swinging in my face during sex, I love sucking her nipples then. But most important is being able to look into her eyes during sex. That is the biggest turn on for me.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - The ass and the legs. Like I said before, not much of a boob guy. I've had just as much awesome sex with a girl with a A cup as much as one with double DDs.\r\n\r\n

What turns you on about a woman while having sex?

\r\n\r\nTom - When she has a nice butt, and I feel it cradle nicely on my hips.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - I love hearing a woman enjoy herself. Moaning, screaming, they make me get into it even more. One of the sexiest things on earth is a woman's face right before she cums. I also like hearing a woman talk dirty to me during sex. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - Her sexuality...how soft her skin feels...how good she feels in my arms...her legs wrapped around me...her moans...the way she tilts her head back in ecstasy...when you can feel her pussy opening up for you so you can go deeper...her breasts...holding her hips in my hands...kissing her passionately...the way she moves her hips...the way her ass looks while fucking her doggie style....her hair...looking into her eyes...the way she arches her body when fucking or when she's coming...the sound of her orgasming.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - My biggest turn on is hearing her talk dirty. Telling my how she likes when I fuck her or how my cock feels inside her. If I am going down on her I want to hear moaning or telling me she loves the feel of my tongue in her pussy or on her clit.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - Everything! Noises are huge and so important and dirty talk makes it all more enjoyable. I love when a woman tells me what to do to her. Love it when oral is interminably thrown in during sex... switching up... just builds my orgasm more and more. MOST IMPORTANT; nothing turns me on more than when a girl cums... a woman's orgasm is the sexiest thing on the planet.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - I like quivering, it lets me know I am doing something right.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - A woman that knows what she wants and is not affraid to use me to get it!\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I get turned on while having sex, when I hear the woman moan and groan, and looking into her eyes, seeing how much she is loving the sex.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - I do enjoy hearing her moans. The other side of the coin is watching her trying to stifle her moans so she isn't found out. I like to see her face contort as she climaxes. If I am getting a blow job and going down on her at the same time, I'll treat it like a game to see who can get who off first.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - Her voice - I have to like her voice - and she does not have to over act. Also feminine hands and a light touch. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - I love looking into her eyes while she reaches orgasm.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - Again, eye contact is huge for me, as are being able to see the reactions in her face and mouth, hearing her moans, feeling the way her body writhes, moves and grinds against me while we are having sex - all are huge turn-ons. Kissing during sex - long, passionate kisses with a little biting and sucking - are also at the top of that list. So is playing with her breasts and sucking on and nibbling her nipples. And of course, being as oral and sensual as I am, giving her head and feeling her pussy lips and clit against my tongue and mouth, usually while I am fingering her, are also insanely arousing to me. I also really enjoy it if she talks 'dirty' to me and says what she wants me to do to her in a naughty way ('fuck my cunt harder', 'your cock feels so good in my pussy', etc).\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - Again, being able to lock eyes during sex, it is always my biggest turn on. Finding ourselves breathing in and out together...very exciting. Of course hearing her moan (as long as she is not faking it), having her breasts hitting my face. Wet kisses are exciting, having her enjoy my slapping her ass, or sucking her nipples hard. Seeing her just lower her head as she picks up the pace is also a huge turn on.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - The way she pivots her legs and hips while I'm eating her out.\r\n\r\n

Whats your favorite sex position and why?

\r\n\r\nTom - I love doggie, because I can see, and play with her ass.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - I can't say that I have an absolute favorite. I go through phases. Like right now my phase is I like a woman to ride me. A few months ago it was doggy. I will say this though, I have yet to find a position I DON'T like.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - Cow girl when the girl is on top of me...this way I can hold on to her hips and watch her hips move as she fucks my cock...plus I have great views of her pussy and my cock...and my favorite is watching her boobs bounce up and down as she's fucking me fast or slow. It's so sensual and sexy. Plus she's in control and I like watching her fuck me to her hearts content along with watching her play with her pussy.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - Doggie style that way I can pull her hair and spank her ass.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - I think it depends on my mood, and what my partner wants. If a girl gets off easiest while on top, she can grind on top of me until she can barely move. The easiest way for me to cum is from doggie style... and if she enjoys it rough... maybe the most fun too... haha\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - I like spooning, I can hold my partner, enter my partner and caress my partner all at once.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - There is no 'favorite' it's always a mutual thing. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I don't have a favorite position.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - I don't have a favorite position really, I've used them all. I guess it all comes down to who you are with and where you are. There are times that these factors direct you into a certain position. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - Missionary, easier to look at face and boobs.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - Doogy style, because I can touch her boobs better.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - Doggystyle is probably my favorite of all the positions because it's just so arousing being able to see myself penetrate deep inside her. It's also very male-empowering and animalistic, so it adds that extra arousal of being totally dominant, which is fun to exert at times. Missionary is great too, especially for the eye contact and kissing factors, and being ridden cowgirl is always very hot as well, but if I have to pick a favorite, it's doggystyle.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n Steve - My favorite is when the woman is on top. In my experience, it seemed to both my partner and me that I was able to penetrate deeper into her. Also being able to thrust up and meet her as she comes down is a big part of that. I am also able to see into her eyes and as I said I love it when her and I lock eyes during sex. It's electrifying at times. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - 69. Because it's the best of two worlds. Although, it's will remain a mystery if she got you off by sucking you or rubbing it out. But I love eating a girl out while I'm in blast off mode. In intercourse, I prefer to finish off with her flat out on the bed and my legs spread out on her behind. I don't know what that position is called, but I think it was my landlady who got me turned on to it (yes, there was a time when I was living in San Diego- I had to pay off my rent by other means)\r\n\r\n

Whats your definition of foreplay?

\r\n\r\nTom - Giving my partner the first orgasm.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nGlen - Foreplay is, pardon the military expression, prepping the target area. You have to make sure she's TOTALLY into it, mind and body. Foreplay can be mental or physical. Some women like to be stimulated mentally as well as physically. One of my favorite things to do when I'm dating someone, is to send short little messages throughout the day about what I'm going to do to her later that night. That keeps her constantly thinking about it and having her arousal build all day. But the key to that is to follow through with everything you told her you would do. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - The date...knowing that you want to fuck someone but you have to wait...seeing her wearing a sexy dress and the way she walks...conversation...the whole tease of the date. Then once home, you can continue the tease with some drinks or heading to the bedroom. Undressing a woman slowly...watching a woman undress herself...having her undress me...kissing...touching.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - Foreplay is kissing or touching before you actually get naked but then it is licking and biting all over after you are naked.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - Anything sexual, or physical touching that the result isn't to stimulate orgasm... like oral, or handjobs, and just anything that is meant to lead up to something else! \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - nice dinner, slow dancing, good conversation, nibble on her ear, play with her neck, massage her back, play with her breasts, massage her private areas etc.... etc..\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - I think of foreplay as anything that leads to the act itself.... it could be conversation, teasing, kising, etc. The sexual mind is a terrible thing to waste.\r\n\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - Foreplay is me licking and sucking a woman's nipples, and sticking my tongue deep in her pussy.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - Foreplay to me is how well I can get the girl worked up before having sex. It can be a grope of her tits or a grab of her ass in the middle of a store with the chance of being caught. Pushing the right buttons, getting her turned on and up is the main thing.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - Foreplay is a date - hanging out - talking - kissing - having a drink together. Intimate positive conversation. Pretty much anything that is not a downer and brings people together and leads to kissing.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - Foreplay is the gate of heaven.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - To me, foreplay is everything leading up to penetrative sex or orgasm - kissing, cuddling, spooning, dry-fucking, handjobs, blowjobs, rubbing/fingering a girl's pussy, cunnilingus, etc. It can also include playing with things like food (licking whipped cream, flavored body oils, etc.), toys, taking a bath together, dripping candle wax on erogenous zones - basically anything sensual that's arousing and makes two people want to have sex.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nSteve - Definite alone time with no phone or TV, concentrating on just being with one another. A back or foot rub, letting each other know how much you love and care for each other, kissing while letting your hands "wander", stroking her hair, nibbling on her earlobe, softly licking her ear (if she likes that), even a pillow fight can be (and has on several occasions for me) foreplay. Slow dancing while undressing each other. Feeding each other Hershey's Kisses, grapes, or strawberries. A can of Reddi Whip has been part of more than a few foreplay sessions in my life.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - I guess gentle caresses, maneuvering my hand up some skirt. Drinking some wine while sharing some conversation in a hotel room, eating her out through her stockings or pantyhose.\r\n\r\n

How long do you think foreplay should last?

\r\n\r\nTom - As long as it takes to give her the first orgasm, if she has the time.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - There's no set minimum or maximum about of time for foreplay. Its all about taking care of your lady and making sure she's satisfied in every way. Some days it might not take much, but other days it could take a while. Everyone benefits from foreplay though.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - As long as she wants it...I love to tease a woman until she's squirming and begging me to fuck her...but I still won't fuck her...I'll wait a little longer to tease her even more until she's can almost cum from me touching her. When a woman is dripping down her leg and ass and you can tell her pussy is nice and swollen from no relief then you know it's time...\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - No set time. Can last minutes or an hour. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - It should be different every time! Sometimes it should be long, and drawn out until both people just cannot handle it and have to fuck one another. Other times, it's fun to just get right down to business.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - At least an hour maybe more.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - A life time. Yes, I mean that.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - I don't know.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - Foreplay should last as long as both parties wish it to. I don't feel there should be any set time. In some cases the longer the better. It can make for hotter sex. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - Foreplay can last as long as you like - sometimes I just like making out with a woman and feeling her body close to mine.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - 15 minutes.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - How long foreplay lasts really depends on the time, place and situation. There are times when lots of foreplay is great and I could easily enjoy it for an hour or more before sex (although any longer without fucking would probably drive me crazy!). And there are other times when it feels great just to go straight for sex, like a quickie in a public place.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nSteve - With me, there is no set time or clock watching. Once a pillow fight lasted about 3 minutes before her and I were madly making out (do people still say that?) and undressing each other. One memorable time involved slow dancing while drinking wine and singing love songs to each other and that lasted close to an hour before we just dropped to the floor and made love. I would say on average, I would like foreplay to last at least 20 - 30 minutes. I have always loved the foreplay part of sex and I don't mind if it lats longer than that.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - A good half hour to forty-five minutes.\r\n\r\n

How long do you like sex to last?

\r\n\r\nTom - At least one hour, if not a few.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - As long as both people can hold out. Slow romantic love making usually will last a little longer than all out dirty hard porno sex and both are equally satisfying. It also depends on the situation. Obviously you can't have marathon sex during a lunch hour so sometimes quicker is better. It's all about what the situation dictates.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - All night! Even if I come I still love to make a woman cum. There are times that I can keep going all night then there are times that I need to rest, a quick nap, but I'll keep it up as long as she can handle me. Sex is fun when it's a sleep over because you can just fuck all night and more in the morning.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - I have sex until I cannot have it anymore. Could be once for 15 minutes or multiple times for 2 hours.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - For me personally I need at least 20 minutes to get there. I love long drawn out sessions where I withhold orgasm until the end release is just plain massive. Like the last question I think it shouldn't always be the same amount of time.... It's more fun to not know!\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - All night and the next day.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - Until we are both spent, if good.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - As long as it is pleasurable.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - The longer the better. I have had quickies and I've had sex sessions last all day for continual days. Do you consider sex the time it takes to get off or the time you both call it quits and take a break for a day or two? No matter how long it lasts, I make the best out of the time available.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - All night is good - as long as we can get some sleep. That is why it is important not to cum right away and even tease penetration\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - 30-45 minutes.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - Ideally, I like sex to at least last 30-45 mins, from oral sex to penetration to orgasm(s). But it really depends. I love sex that lasts much longer too, when both of you can forget any & all worries and schedule and fuck each other for hours on end, usually with a lot of cuddling and foreplay in between multiple orgasms. Quickies can be fun when possible, but are often fleeting - personally I'll take marathon sex sessions over quickies anyday.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nSteve - This is the part where I want to brag and say it should last for hours, but to be honest, it depends on how you define sex. If it is an act that brings one orgasm to each person, then I would have to say at least 15 - 20 minutes...at least that. If you define sex as the whole time you spend together from the start of foreplay to when the after sex cuddling stops, I would have to say an hour. If sex is defined as a quickie, then skipping the foreplay and getting right down to it...then 10 - 15 minutes.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - An hour to an hour and a half. Recharge batteries and go at it again for another half hour. So two hours total.\r\n\r\n

Whats your favorite thing that you like a woman to do to you?

\r\n\r\nTom - I have been rimmed before. I was very self-conscious about it, even after a shower. It was great.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nGlen - I would have to say that being seduced by a woman all day is my favorite. When she wears that outfit that makes you drool for that very reason and then teases you and gives you those mischievous looks from across the table all night or bends over just enough for you to get a little peek at something, that drives me nuts. Then after that, takes you home and rocks your world all night, there's nothing better.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nTodd - Have her way with me...\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDennis - I love when she looks into my eyes with that look that says I want to be fucked. It could be while you are out or at home while she is on her knees sucking me and just makes eye contact with that look.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBradley - Be confident, if you and I are lucky enough to have one another in the bedroom... tell me what you want... and I will do it. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nAnthony - Walk around in a towel. Works every time.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nDevan - Tease & Deny!!\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nBlake - My favorite thing a woman can do to me to arouse me, is by giving me a super blowjob.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nJake - Telling me she loves me. She can sit there and absent mindedly be doing something like sucking her finger or twirling her hair. If she is lying out in the sun and her hand wanders along her body that in itself drives me mad. \r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nPierre - Back rubs generally put me to sleep but if a woman licks or nuzzles my neck that usually leads to arousal.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nManuel - Give me a blowjob.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nFrank - I'm very oral-oriented, so being a good kisser is super important to me in every aspect - a great kiss can give me such a hard on! Aside from kisses, I really enjoy being bit (lightly), sucked and nibbled on, especially on my neck and nipples. And it always feels amazing when a girl really knows how to handle my cock and strokes my shaft the right way (with enough pressure but not too hard, plays with my balls and head, etc.) There's so many things I could list, but those are definitely all near the top of the list.\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nSteve - I absolutely go crazy when a woman is whispering sexy or loving things in my ear while we are having sex. Her kissing my ear and whispering how much she wants me or loves me, while she is touching me, is just wonderful. If we are talking about a physical act, then I would love having her give me a slow, teasing hand-job, where she softly and erotically kisses it at the same time, could drive me insane with pleasure. Unfortunately, I have never had a woman do that to me (I hope this doesn't sound too strange because it is only a dream at this point in my life).\r\n\r\n

\r\n\r\nShawn - Two things: When a date is driving me home and if she's into me, she usually shows it by placing her hand on my inner thigh while she's working the gear shaft- and another is in a public place when she initiates a game of footsie. A girl that I had just met on a train ride down to San Diego once did that to me. Complements on a blog or a facebook status or on a piece of music or a comic book that I've written by girls I've met over social networks that I've dated are a turn on as well.\r\n\r\n


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